All Things New: Growing in Authentic Relationships

Living a new life in Christ requires a new approach to interacting with people. Jesus says we’ll experience meaning, purpose and joy in life as we remain in Him; and remaining in Him involves going out of our way to love others.  

KEY VERSES: John 15:12-13 (NLT) 12  This is my commandment: Love each other in the same way I have loved you. 13  There is no greater love than to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.

BIG IDEA: Jesus says remaining IN Him involves going OUT of our way to  love others.

Biblical Communication Guidelines

• I will overlook minor offenses. (Ephesians 4:2; Proverbs 19:11)

• When I have a problem with another person, I will go to that person promptly and privately, only involving a few select others if the conflict persists. (Matthew 18:15-17; Proverbs 28:23)

• I will set aside my own pride in the face of conflict, and humbly pursue a course of biblical reconciliation as recommended by the church leadership. (1 Peter 5:5; Ephesians 4:2)

• When individuals have a problem with me, I want them to come to me privately; I will be open to them when they come. (Proverbs 15:31-32; Matthew 18:15)

• When someone has a problem with me, and comes to you, send that person to me.  I’ll do the same for you. (Proverbs 26:20; Matthew 18:15)

• When I am wondering if someone has a problem with me, I will go to them and ask promptly. (Matthew 5:23-24)

• I will not assume what others are thinking and feeling, or speak for others in regards to what they are thinking or feeling. (Matthew 18:15, 5:23-24)

• I will honor others by treating personal information and private conversations as confidential. (Proverbs 11:13)

I will refrain from all gossip and slander, only speaking that which encourages and builds up others. (Ephesians 4:29)